Am i intimidating man
I'm talking about this bizarre open conversation that happens at one of two points in a relationship: You somehow turn “you're intimidating” into an opening line.
Why, yes, you now have my attention because I'm now curious about your psyche.
If there is one phrase I'm tired of men dropping, it's, “You're intimidating.”Before I jump up on my soapbox and make myself even more “intimidating,” let me write a disclaimer: This article is not intended for the woman you are too afraid to approach.
I can't fix the mean girl who blows you off at the bar or the not-so-mean girl you just said has “resting bitch face (RBF).” (Also, I'm pretty sure my brain-on-fire-and-therefore-deep-in-thought face does not mean I'm a bitch, so please stop using “RBF”).
Do you feel better after getting this off your chest, as if we are in a first interview and you need to shake your nerves by being brutally honest?
Newsflash: This is not an interview and even if it were, you would never tell the person interviewing you that he or she is “intimidating.”I’d rather you just tell me you're nervous because it's endearing.
We've been talking for a while, maybe even tried the dating thing, and for whatever reason, you feel the need to inform me (as if I didn't already know) that I'm intimidating.
Besides, if you actually took a chance to get to know me, you would realize I am the last person who should intimidate you, and here's why: Here are five things you should know about the woman you keep calling “intimidating”: One reason why relationships fail is that one or both parties find themselves bored and develop wandering eyes, ears and hands (sadly).
Guess what: The person who slightly intimidates you is also the person who will constantly keep your attention.