This could be mean she has had children, a divorce, anything that comes with the human experience.
It is not hard for an older woman to find a puppy dog that wants to follow her around and admire her.
What makes for a more rewarding and exciting partnership is if you have the guts to challenge and stand up to her.
Tell her what you are looking for instead, what your expectations are and see if you’re a realistic match.Some cougars are looking for a quick hook up and some want the real thing, so get this out in the open early and you will both be getting what you want. Some call it experience, others call it baggage, what you know for sure is that your lady had a life before you came along.Do not, I repeat, do not approach a cougar with the assumption that because she is older she is also desperate and will take whatever she can have.This lady doesn’t need you to feel happy – for money or for support.
Show her you are interested in more than just her wallet by reaching for your own. Don’t fall into the trap of assuming that from the moment you meet an older woman that you are a kept man.If you want to be more than just another pretty face in her past, make sure you always have your own thoughts and opinions to keep conversation lively and your new lady on her toes. They are often very well-educated and intelligent individuals, but if you are going to be spending any time with her you need to catch her attention and show her you are on her level.