Dating a poor man
You know he won’t bring you complications or dramatic affairs. You know he respects your independence and wants what’s best for you. He would much rather say forget it and go get Mexican food and margaritas. He doesn’t always understand your “girl” problems, but the poor guy does try. But you know he never tries to manipulate or deceive you. He doesn’t freak out and create absurd cheating scenarios if you don’t text him back for awhile. And if he doesn’t talk to you for a little while, you know odds are he’s sitting somewhere playing FIFA with his buddies or he randomly fell asleep, and the only thing he is on top of is a fruit roll-up wrapper he left on the couch. He doesn’t mind making a fool of himself if it means getting a smile out of you. He doesn’t try to take you from your friends and family. This is why this kind of man is the real hero we’re all looking for from the movies. He never picks a fight or creates problems where there aren’t any. He can make you laugh in literally any situation, some of which you were trying not to laugh during. He doesn’t hold a grudge or draw out disagreements. Sometimes it feels too honest at times and you hold back urges to smack his insensitive little face. He just brings you hugs that swallow you whole, laughter that makes your stomach hurt and forehead kisses when you feel like the world is tumbling down.However, often times the reality is not as beautiful as the dream. The excitement of the drama wears away quickly when the stress and instability start to swallow you. Sometimes you still find yourself in complete awe of some of the ridiculous crap that comes out of his mouth. He can get a lot of enjoyment out of the simple things in life. Basically, getting his favorite kind of ice cream or watching his sports team win will make him absolutely elated, and it’s awesome. He just calmly takes hardships as they come and evaluates the situation for what it is. He doesn’t cause conflict with the people you love. Lexi contributes to a number of global online publications and is always trying to get involved in the conversation.We all want the epic love, but the best lovers are also the best friends. They are the guys with the big hearts, that say the wrong thing sometimes, but always come through for you. She's an advocate for equality, knowledge, healthy relationships, compassion, self-confidence, integrity and above all, love.
He stays out of the drama around him and just does his own thing. You have hounded him at least once or twice for not caring about something as much as you wish he did, only to realize it really didn’t matter that much anyway. You have some pretty funny stories about some of his attempts at romance. Board games, movie marathons, pillow forts, long walks, jam-session car rides, take-out, dancing, funny videos and living room wrestling matches are impeccable experiences to the two of you. You know he would always choose you, and always have your back.
Not only about leaving him but what if I’m making the biggest mistake of my life.
You have the best time with him doing the simplest of things.
Since we got together at 14 we knew this was gonna be the case but times getting shorter and I’m scared.
The men you stay with are the ones with dependable, honest, comical and caring natures. She's addicted to caffeinated beverages and people who make her smile.They are the ones that put you first, and bring simple laughter to your life, rather than more stress. I’m leaving my simple guy to go travel and live out my dreams.