Dating a women in a divorce
He does not like you talking to other men – including your friend’s husbands or your brother’s friends.He says that he wants you all to himself and does not like to share.Chances are you will meet some wonderful – and not so wonderful – men during your journey. He admits to having several children with various women. (especially if there are young children involved.) Dating Red Flag #5 – Where Does He Live?Your responsibility is to know exactly what you want in a man and to keep your eyes open for potential red flags. He spends money frivolously and likes to flash wads of money. You have been dating for a month or two and he has yet to articulate what he does for a living. Questions to ask yourself: Were the mama’s pregnant at the same time? You just find out the man you have been dating is living with his mom or in his sister’s basement.
He tells you that you are doing it the wrong way or that things you are interested in are stupid.Questions to ask yourself: Does he get extremely angry if you do not follow through? Do you really want to be controlled by another person? He tells you that he sees you looking at other men.He drives an expensive, fast fancy car, wears a rolex and expensive jewelry, clothing and other accessories. He appears nice enough, but conveniently avoids answering personal questions about himself. Another scenario could be that he crashes with various friends or lives with a couple of women.He lavishes you at the finest of restaurants and is always bragging about how much money he has. He expects you to drive and never offers to pay for gas. He may say things like, “I am a jack of all trades,” “I make money in a variety of ways” or “It’s complicated.” Questions to ask yourself: What is he hiding? Questions to ask yourself: What are the circumstances? Does he have a solid plan to venture out on his own? Everything that comes out of his mouth has a negative aura about it.
Your divorce is over and you are ready to get out there and start dating again.You are both excited about the possibilities and terrified that you will find a loser.