Dating again after long relationship
If you give it your best shot and it still doesn’t help, then it’s time to dig out that life vest and swim for the shore.
When a relationship ends, one of two things is typically happening.
The focus of your issues may be different, but the degree is always the same. When you are heart broken, sleeping a lot, or not sleeping at all, eating poorly or not at all, crying, drinking, under-performing at work, and generally not on top of your game your stock values are low, low , low.
Relationships are the best vehicle around to help us become the best version possible of ourselves.
” Sure, sometimes we attract partners that do not mirror our emotional health – and that’s why those relationships don’t last. Your issues may not be the same, but they are disabling to the same degree.
She may drink and yell too much, and to the same degree she is not taking care of herself, you are also not taking care of yourself by tolerating or enabling this. When you are taking care of yourself, eating right, exercising, spiritually balanced, mentally stimulated, socially active, and feeling good – your stock values are at their peak.
The very best thing you can ever do for your relationship is to focus on how to live your life with as much health and happiness as possible.
There is no greater gift you can give your partnership than a healthy you!