Dating kid girl
More specifically, my question is should I give up on this woman because she has a kid?
A hard rule I had but now am questioning for this one woman.
Recently I met a girl who I have been dating for almost 2 months and she is wonderful.
She is down to earth, funny, smart, ambitious, independent, kind and extremely attractive and I mean very, very, very gorgeous.
I have been on dates with other women before who have had children and I chose not to continue to pursue any of them.
The thing is, the other women also lacked qualities I was looking for or the chemistry was never strong to begin with. I finally found a great girl that I am very much falling for, am sometimes catching myself thinking about the future with her, but now I’m re-evaluating everything all because of her kid. She and her ex have 50/50 custody and are very civilized and get along just fine. I rarely take questions from guys, but I thought this was a curious role-reversal.
Our chemistry is off the charts but my favorite part about her is being able to relax and enjoy the moment because as serious as she is about the direction of her professional life, she is able to appreciate the simple moments and humor in life. Although since I began seeing her, I haven’t been using any of the dating websites I have been on and I am not interested in dating more women to explore my options.
Which I am sure says a lot about how I feel for this woman and the direction I am looking to go with her.
I was reluctant and skeptical at first but as I get to know her more, the age isn’t even anything I think about. I understand how much of an asshole that makes me sound like, but after meeting this woman, I am so torn.
Am I pulling what you refer to (and sorry if I mess this up) as a “blackjack 20”? Put a woman’s name after this question and you wouldn’t be able to tell the difference (apart from the “very, very, very gorgeous” line).
I have been on a dating website on and off for almost 11 years, probably a total of 7.
Point being, I haven’t had the most success with online dating or blind dates that friends have tried to set me up on.
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