Dating non virgin girlfriend
His gracious love led to me see something important; that the most damaging thing from my past was not the sexual sins I've long been forgiven of, but the lies I believed told to me by other Christians.His fixation on the fact that she had previously had sex, even though she was repentant about this, clouded their relationship.He was devastated when she broke up with him, and could never admit anything he'd done wrong.Despite growing up in a loving Christian home, turning into a young woman who led Bible studies and attended Christian conferences, I messed up and had sex in college.My (worship-leading) then-fiance had convinced me that "in God's eyes, we were already married." Afterwards, when he left to take a shower, I cried for a solid hour, watching from my window as the sun came up.A very good friend of mine recently broke up with her boyfriend.
When he unceremoniously broke up me with two months later, I felt both the pain of rejection and the terror that I had ruined my chances of ever marrying a Christian man.
Seven years later, I'm married to an amazing man who has never once made me feel bad about my past.