Free kinky sex dating site


25-Oct-2016 18:01

If you’ve read many of our previous kinky dating site reviews, you’ve probably noticed a few trends: a lot of sites seem to promise an immediate connection to a world of gorgeous people who want nothing more than to chain relative strangers to the walls of their comfortable dungeons.

Instead, they deliver a pile of pretty pictures, a paywall and a constant barrage of ungrammatical spam. It doesn’t even seem to have a paid membership function.

Once you’ve done that, you can fill out your profile, upload photographs and so on.

There are a few site functions – such as messaging other users – that you’ll need to fill out a profile to access.

For instance, I can restrict my search to one of a range from “very light” to “very hard” – but very hard what? Similarly, the list of fetishes you can check on a search runs to eight in total, with “fetish” as one category, but scat and pissing as two separate ones. Perhaps the problem was just that there weren’t a lot of the kind of people I was looking for? Speaking of differing user experiences, before I figured out how to refine the search I clicked on quite a few profiles of women who were not looking to meet men at all, and each of them had a vehement, capitalized, multiple-exclamation-pointed statement informing the world that they weren’t looking to meet a man and would not welcome messages from men, sadly suggesting that my fellow straight guys are no better than I am at figuring out how the search function works but significantly worse at reading comprehension.

So far, so refreshing: no constant badgering for subscriptions, no army of spambots, no frustrating crippleware. I live in a moderately-large town, but even when I set my search parameters to include a radius that would cover most of London I was only able to come up with about 20 or 30 results – and that was using the simplest search possible.

It’s visible in the language choices – do other people call paying for sex “sponsorship”?

I’ve never heard it before; it sounds so worthy – and also in the search options. As I pondered this curious site, I began to wonder if I wasn’t, as the young people say, interrogating the text from the wrong perspective.

While craiglist has turned up a few sexy submissives for us, there is so many scams on there that it's WAY better to use some s&m dating sites that just specialize in BDSM or submissive dating sites.

The first impression of BDSMDate is that it’s rather old-fashioned in its Geo Cities-worthy web design; a minimalist black background, no glossy modern design. Honestly, you wouldn’t have to change it much to look like 2001’s hottest BDSM dating site.

Signing is up is simple and free; you fill out a basic form, put in a few details and click a confirmation link.



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