Yes they're so many losers you need to be strong and ditch as soon as you know it's not right for you.
I met my husband online, unfortunately it was after going through tons of losers and he wasn't texting me much so I assumed he was a waste of space too and I stood him up until I dated someone else who lied about having kids.
When it came to men they were much less fussy and liked over 80% of the women, but they then got rejected by the women and eventually left the site dissatisfied. It's like that because most of you girls keep telling us men that you don't want 'nice' men, so it's hardly surprising you get what you wish for!
My husband is so honest and trust worthy and had an online profile but never met anyone before and hardly approached anyone to chat to as he was shy and it wasn't his thing. He's never held it against me but it fills me with guilt.
Stick it out and just don't take it all too personally. weirdos with all sorts of sexual pervertions, those who tell you they are wanting a relationship, when acually all they want is a quick leg over...
Seriously though a lot of you do seem to look for these types of guys because you say nice blokes are boring, so some nice blokes will behave weird just to get noticed, and the other nice blokes have probably given up...
I read recently that someone who ran one of the major dating sites had done some research on the members and found that women think that the top 20% of men in terms of wealth, appearance etc. So basically 80% of the women were chasing 20% of the men and then becoming dissatisfied with the site as many of those 20% of men were players, weirdos, self-obsessed or yep, married.
I actually went to bed in tears last night because of all of this!!! Why ooooooooooh why is it so hard to find a decent man on dating sites..plagued with wierdos...players...married men...i hear you say why dont i go out but its hard whn im alone..friends...oooooooooo 😢But but but...It's like that because most of you girls keep telling us men that you don't want 'nice' men, so it's hardly surprising you get what you wish for!Why ooooooooooh why is it so hard to find a decent man on dating sites..plagued with wierdos...players...married men...i hear you say why dont i go out but its hard whn im alone..friends...oooooooooo 😢 Its the most soul destroying process!!! Most only seem interrested in wanting to have naughty messaging with no intent of ever meeting up.Or you seemed to be getting on well, even arrange a date, but then they block you or delete their account with no explanation.
I deleted online profile and contacted my husband again and got to know him away from the Internet.Turned out he really liked me and I really upset him standing him up and he didn't text me back much because he was studying for uni and hasn't really had girlfriend experience so didn't want to harrass me with messages.