One in seven men and women said they masturbated twice a week. Guest Nondumiso opens up to Garry Hertzberg and the team and gives a glimpse into the soul stripping phenomenon of revenge porn and how she sought revenge.Also, find out about the titillating movements that are being made in the sex industry.In the MH survey, 34% said their primary goal was her orgasm (1.6% said it was ‘feeling loved’). Rushing foreplay is the biggest mistake a guy can make in the bedroom… and kissing is still the number one form of foreplay (as voted by both men [90%] and women [93%]). SA women are kinkier than ever (is it the 50 Shades influence?
The guys still beat them hands down though, with 59% saying they enjoyed performing oral sex. The vast majority of women (46%), said that their primary goal during sex was to connect with their partner.
Interestingly only 13% of WH respondents found receiving oral sex to be the ‘most pleasing’ activity in bed (thrusting technique and emotional connection rated much higher). Only 9% said an orgasm was their goal (which might explain why 10% said they never orgasm at all).
Over 1 200 women and 1 600 men took part in the survey. On the other hand, 30% also said they would take back a partner who had cheated (against only 25% of men who would take back a cheating partner), suggesting, perhaps, that their own infidelities have made women more forgiving.
Also, the definition of cheating appears to be very broad: 18% would consider having a close friendship with a male colleague to be cheating; and 62% said flirting via SMS and social networks counted as cheating. The rise of the Hollywood When it comes to their ‘lady gardens’, 46% of respondents said they are shaved completely whilst 21% of men said the same, and 41% say they trim regularly.
And 61% had watched porn with a partner and 56% had engaged in phone/SMS/Skype or chatroom sex, while 20% had used handcuffs and 7% had had a threesome with another woman. Just under half (48%) would say no to sex if there's no condom. A high 47% of WH respondents said sex in public was their biggest fantasy 9. In fact, there's a higher chance she'll have sex if he's married than if she's having her period; 57% of women said they would say no to sex if he's married; 38% if she's too drunk; and a whopping 71% if she's menstruating. Top of the charts The majority of women (26%) agree that the “cowboy” position (woman on top) is their favourite but the one they’d most like to try is “sitting on his lap facing him”, while men’s favourite position was the “missionary with legs up”. Friends with benefits 78% of WH and 77% of MH respondents said the best place to meet a partner is through mutual friends, which suggests online dating is still a niche for singles. Masturbation shocker A sexy 37% of women said they masturbate once or twice a week, compared with only 29% of men.