Unhappily divorced dating
with a man who has filed for divorce and minimize getting devastated.As most articles I write, I do not know if what is being reported is true about Fantasia Barrino, however I am going to talk about it as if it is were true to discuss an important issues.So, what do you do if you meet the most wonderful man?In addition to continuing to date at least two to three other men at all times until you are feeling comfortable committing, here is how to handle a man. This means that he and his ex-wife a) filed for divorce, which requires a public legal document, b) waited the mandatory waiting period for that state (it can be 60 days up to a full year), c) took care of any custody and financial issues, d) submitted these to the court and e) the court approved the dissolution of the marriage -- also public information.One couple I knew had been separated for five years, the wife spoke with and approved of her husbands potential girlfriend, and yet when he fell in love with the girlfriend, the wife fell apart and threatened to ruin his reputation with their children. And, as you know, most women, no matter how unhappily married, harbor a hope deep inside that their husband will "get it" and change and come back to them.
He may have moved out, he may call himself separated, he may have the best sob story you have ever heard. If he or she hasn't filed, there is no legal and concrete intention yet to divorce.
First ladies, he is married and married is married until a final divorce is decreed by the courts.
No matter how mean he tells you his wife is, how much he says she doesn't understand him, how much more he loves you compared to her, he is still in a legally binding contract with another woman who he most likely swore to be faithful to until death do they part.
If he has filed, you can ask to see a copy of the front page of the filing with the official stamp and also check with the court before you decide to see him at all. Step 3 -- If he hasn't filed for divorce I do not recommend spending any time with him at all.
It is especially hard to remember this if you have amazing chemistry or if he is wealthy or famous.
After all, he is so unhappy with her and says you make him so much more happy.